salam and good evening.
Thursday and Friday we learned about negotiations.
in this life, we must negotiate almost everyday.
children will negotiate with parents.
employee will negotiate with employer.
students will negotiate with teachers.
and so on.
Mr Hisham conducted this class.
when we negotiate.
win-win situation is very important.
we must flexible with our decision and must have BATNA.
BATNA is like we have back up things if negotiate fail.
when negotiate.
emotion must avoid because it will become the barrier.
not too rigid and flexible is important.
in this class.
we were asked to act in drama about negotiation.
1st day, the story line had prepared by Mr Hisham.
my group got story about landlord want to raise the rent.
so, my group must need to negotiate with landlord.
comments from Mr Hisham.
we were too emotional.
very very emotional.
2nd day.
we need to create an event.
i partner with Dhiya and we come with amazing story.
a story about doctor need to negotiate with his/her dying patient.
the doc want his/her dying patient to donate organs.
but, our story not come out when bail out.
owh, i need to be an actor.
for 2 story.
first with Nabila.
i need to negotiate with her.
about go to village during Hari Raya.
2nd is with Fadirul and Zaheerah.
about i as vocalist, want to going solo.
and this drama, we got best actor.
Mr Hisham gave us chocolate.
very happy and i learned a lot of things from Mr Hisham.
and, this day maybe the last day Mr Hisham teach us.
He is very best trainer.
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Public Speaking
salam and good evening...
sex before marry.
this issue become worst from day to day.
one researcher from local university had conducted a survey.
he asked teenager age from 13-25 about sex before marry.
from 400 respondents, 300 of them admitted that they already had sex before marry.
and 85% from that 300 respondents not regret and happy when doing that.
this problem had become like cancer.
if we not treat well, it will kill our country.
what is the cause???
from my opinion, movies and dramas especially from western can be one of the cause.
when we saw movies, in romantic part, when man and woman want to show their pure love.
they make love.
more or less, this part will effect child and teenager.
they will think if we want pure love, make love is essential.
another cause is curiosity.
weird right, curiosity is like double edge sword.
it can bring good things and also bad things.
teenager or child that exposed that sex things too much.
they will wonder and want to try it.
and when they get opportunity.
you know... some bad things happen
what the effects of these problem.
the increasing of baby dumping nowadays is the effect from this problem.
this child that born from illegal way always dis-acknowledge by their own parents.
and their parents will dump and kill their own baby.
the bad behavior and undisciplined attitude also will develop.
if teenager dare to against god rule (Allah).
dont u think they will against mankind rule.
and how to cure this problem.
i think morale and religious education in more important.
we must educate them at the early age.
our mistake is we educate them when there are too late.
when there are too late.
their mind just focus on how to enjoy and ignore most of advise.
this is topic that i discuss during 'Public Speaking'.
this presentation is big presentation for individual topic.
my group, Pecah Mental must discuss about "Youth Social Problems".
and that some of my speech.
Mr Hisham said.
i improved and improved.
just i need to correct my pronunciation.
thanks Mr Hisham for that comments.
sex before marry.
this issue become worst from day to day.
one researcher from local university had conducted a survey.
he asked teenager age from 13-25 about sex before marry.
from 400 respondents, 300 of them admitted that they already had sex before marry.
and 85% from that 300 respondents not regret and happy when doing that.
this problem had become like cancer.
if we not treat well, it will kill our country.
what is the cause???
from my opinion, movies and dramas especially from western can be one of the cause.
when we saw movies, in romantic part, when man and woman want to show their pure love.
they make love.
more or less, this part will effect child and teenager.
they will think if we want pure love, make love is essential.
another cause is curiosity.
weird right, curiosity is like double edge sword.
it can bring good things and also bad things.
teenager or child that exposed that sex things too much.
they will wonder and want to try it.
and when they get opportunity.
you know... some bad things happen
what the effects of these problem.
the increasing of baby dumping nowadays is the effect from this problem.
this child that born from illegal way always dis-acknowledge by their own parents.
and their parents will dump and kill their own baby.
the bad behavior and undisciplined attitude also will develop.
if teenager dare to against god rule (Allah).
dont u think they will against mankind rule.
and how to cure this problem.
i think morale and religious education in more important.
we must educate them at the early age.
our mistake is we educate them when there are too late.
when there are too late.
their mind just focus on how to enjoy and ignore most of advise.
this is topic that i discuss during 'Public Speaking'.
this presentation is big presentation for individual topic.
my group, Pecah Mental must discuss about "Youth Social Problems".
and that some of my speech.
Mr Hisham said.
i improved and improved.
just i need to correct my pronunciation.
thanks Mr Hisham for that comments.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Mock Interview...
salam and good morning...
monday... peoples alway said...
mondays in blues day... but for me...
monday very exciting... hahaha
today... we will undergo interview...
not the real one... but only mock interview...
so, i not too worry...
but my friends...
they all worried like this interview is really real...
before we go the practical...
Mr. Abdullah and Mr. Farouk taught we the theory...
how to sit...
how to talk...
what to do...
the important things when interview...
we must confident...
the way we talk...
the way we sit...
our gestures...
must show that we really confident...
then, we going to mock interview...
i got session with Mr Abdullah...
when i enter the room...
such a weird feeling...
i feel this interview is real one...
so, i apply what the lecturers said...
and i remember all my friends said about interview...
Mr Abdullah just asked one question...
"tell me about yourself"
and, i explained...
and he comment...
all i do is correct... BUT...
my pronunciation...
i need to improve my grammar and my pronunciation...
thats all...
this pictures show the scenery when the mock interview...
the students waiting their turn...
you all can see they memorize scripts...
discuss the right answer and so on...
see you all later...
monday... peoples alway said...
mondays in blues day... but for me...
monday very exciting... hahaha
today... we will undergo interview...
not the real one... but only mock interview...
so, i not too worry...
but my friends...
they all worried like this interview is really real...
before we go the practical...
Mr. Abdullah and Mr. Farouk taught we the theory...
how to sit...
how to talk...
what to do...
the important things when interview...
we must confident...
the way we talk...
the way we sit...
our gestures...
must show that we really confident...
then, we going to mock interview...
i got session with Mr Abdullah...
when i enter the room...
such a weird feeling...
i feel this interview is real one...
so, i apply what the lecturers said...
and i remember all my friends said about interview...
Mr Abdullah just asked one question...
"tell me about yourself"
and, i explained...
and he comment...
all i do is correct... BUT...
my pronunciation...
i need to improve my grammar and my pronunciation...
thats all...
this pictures show the scenery when the mock interview...
the students waiting their turn...
you all can see they memorize scripts...
discuss the right answer and so on...
see you all later...
Grooming session
salam and good morning...
last friday... we learned about grooming...
grooming???
why we need to learn this thing???
actually, i am dont like to grooming my self...
just wear shirt and trouser... its fine with me...
shave when i feel i want to shave...
cut hair if lecturer or security guard ask me...
wearing sneakers...
wear colorful belt...
its me...
but, if you want to enter corporate world...
grooming is essential... important...
because... in this world...
no 'dont judge a book by its cover'...
because the cover will show the inside...
Mdm Lina taught me well about grooming...
how to choose color of the shirt...
color of the belt must same with shoes...
facial treatment...
how to choose coat or blazer...
and dinner etiquette...
i've learned a lot of things...
especially dinner etiquette...
because Mdm Lina asked me to be model...
me and Audi Amalina...
to tell you all the truth...
i dont like to follow any ettiquette when eating...
just to fill my stomach... its enough... hahaha...
but, that my old Nazreen...
maybe next time...
when you invite me for dinner...
i will apply this module...
ok... see you all next time...
last friday... we learned about grooming...
grooming???
why we need to learn this thing???
actually, i am dont like to grooming my self...
just wear shirt and trouser... its fine with me...
shave when i feel i want to shave...
cut hair if lecturer or security guard ask me...
wearing sneakers...
wear colorful belt...
its me...
but, if you want to enter corporate world...
grooming is essential... important...
because... in this world...
no 'dont judge a book by its cover'...
because the cover will show the inside...
Mdm Lina taught me well about grooming...
how to choose color of the shirt...
color of the belt must same with shoes...
facial treatment...
how to choose coat or blazer...
and dinner etiquette...
i've learned a lot of things...
especially dinner etiquette...
because Mdm Lina asked me to be model...
me and Audi Amalina...
to tell you all the truth...
i dont like to follow any ettiquette when eating...
just to fill my stomach... its enough... hahaha...
but, that my old Nazreen...
maybe next time...
when you invite me for dinner...
i will apply this module...
ok... see you all next time...
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
communication for leaders...
salam and good morning...
after we go through about communication...
its basic, application...
now we learned communication for leaders...
because...
participants from BeST Program will be leader in the future...
InsyaAllah...
This module were handled by Prof Syed Omar...
Vice Dean at UniRazak...
what is the effective communication...
it must have this factors...
- speak clearly...
- listen actively...
- successful in conveying the message
for leader communication, we must...
- controlled, purposely transfer of meaning by which leader influence people...
- leader must inspire peoples... especially, subordinates...
'good communication are made, not born'
there are barrier in communication and we must know and then, remove the barrier...
to achieve effective communication...
communication barriers include...
- different in perception and language...
- poor listening...
- emotional interference...
- cultural difference...
- physical distraction...
- etc
and we must remove it by
- short the message...
- proper body language...
- care about time...
- etc..
during this module...
we were assigned to present the leader that inspire and influence peoples surrounding them...
we, Pecah Mental Group choose Ahmad Deedat...
Ahmad Deedat is Muslim debater and always debate with Christian Missionaries...
although he is indian + african and mothertounge is not english...
but, he debate in english so the message can deliver world wide...
he also have a lot of knowledge about Bible... as much as he know about Al-Quran...
the success of his debate because...
' his sharp humour in ditching his rival, his soft spoken and convincing voice, his everpresent and radiant smile, his white trimmed beard, his white and simple skull cap, his accessible dressing style and his amusing facial and hand gestures... that enable him to exude such an auraof friendship and cause his adversaries trust and respect him' (got from website)
and, even he attacked by stroke and paralyse until he cant talk...
he still communicate with his eyelids...
very amazing man...
see you all later...
after we go through about communication...
its basic, application...
now we learned communication for leaders...
because...
participants from BeST Program will be leader in the future...
InsyaAllah...
This module were handled by Prof Syed Omar...
Vice Dean at UniRazak...
what is the effective communication...
it must have this factors...
- speak clearly...
- listen actively...
- successful in conveying the message
for leader communication, we must...
- controlled, purposely transfer of meaning by which leader influence people...
- leader must inspire peoples... especially, subordinates...
'good communication are made, not born'
there are barrier in communication and we must know and then, remove the barrier...
to achieve effective communication...
communication barriers include...
- different in perception and language...
- poor listening...
- emotional interference...
- cultural difference...
- physical distraction...
- etc
and we must remove it by
- short the message...
- proper body language...
- care about time...
- etc..
during this module...
we were assigned to present the leader that inspire and influence peoples surrounding them...
we, Pecah Mental Group choose Ahmad Deedat...
Ahmad Deedat is Muslim debater and always debate with Christian Missionaries...
although he is indian + african and mothertounge is not english...
but, he debate in english so the message can deliver world wide...
he also have a lot of knowledge about Bible... as much as he know about Al-Quran...
the success of his debate because...
' his sharp humour in ditching his rival, his soft spoken and convincing voice, his everpresent and radiant smile, his white trimmed beard, his white and simple skull cap, his accessible dressing style and his amusing facial and hand gestures... that enable him to exude such an auraof friendship and cause his adversaries trust and respect him' (got from website)
and, even he attacked by stroke and paralyse until he cant talk...
he still communicate with his eyelids...
very amazing man...
see you all later...
Report Writing
salam and good morning...
after powerful presentation module...
we continue our study in BeST program for report writing module...
in BeST program...
we can say that this module very important...
because we need to think or invent product...
and we must present it in front of Biotechcorp's peoples...
my group that is Pecah Mental discuss a few idea that are...
artificial petroleum...
use Styrofoams as building blocks...
use nematode for soil treatment...
invent new medium for flower to lengthen its freshness...
create marker-less transgenic plants...
and invent halal active carbon...
and we agreed to do about artificial petroleum...
actually, the artificial petroleum is my idea...
i got this idea when i saw one of documentary programmed...
that show now human can create artificial diamond...
natural diamond that need thousand of years now can be produced for a few of month...
with same quality, same strength, same or better color...
so, why not we produce petroleum...
and we agreed to used organic waste for raw material...
and we need to present our SWOT about our idea...
SWOT is stand for
S... Strength
W... Weakness
O... Opportunity
T... Threats
This all the groups that present and sorry because the quality quite bad...
and, as usual...
my group not in this picture...
see you all again
after powerful presentation module...
we continue our study in BeST program for report writing module...
in BeST program...
we can say that this module very important...
because we need to think or invent product...
and we must present it in front of Biotechcorp's peoples...
my group that is Pecah Mental discuss a few idea that are...
artificial petroleum...
use Styrofoams as building blocks...
use nematode for soil treatment...
invent new medium for flower to lengthen its freshness...
create marker-less transgenic plants...
and invent halal active carbon...
and we agreed to do about artificial petroleum...
actually, the artificial petroleum is my idea...
i got this idea when i saw one of documentary programmed...
that show now human can create artificial diamond...
natural diamond that need thousand of years now can be produced for a few of month...
with same quality, same strength, same or better color...
so, why not we produce petroleum...
and we agreed to used organic waste for raw material...
and we need to present our SWOT about our idea...
SWOT is stand for
S... Strength
W... Weakness
O... Opportunity
T... Threats
This all the groups that present and sorry because the quality quite bad...
and, as usual...
my group not in this picture...
see you all again
Saturday, December 18, 2010
powerfull presentation
salam and good morning to all of you...
my journey in BeST Program continue again...
in new week (week 3)... i gained a lot of things...
a lot of knowledge...
but, it seem my mind very full and i forgot some of my new knowledge...
not forgot it permanently but... brain and mind is very mysterious...
when we feel we forgot something...
actually that knowledge or information already stored in 'safety box' in our mind...
and it will come when we not realize it...
hahaha... that my introduction...
powerful presentation...
thats the module that i need and have to learn...
this two days module taught us how to make very memorable presentations...
firstly... you all must throw the afraid to your audiences...
how to do that...
before you all want to present something...
explore the place or venue that will use in the program...
make yourself comfortable at that place...
and... know all your audiences...
if it quite impossible...
meet one of the audience and friend with him...
when you give talk and feel scare or not comfortable...
look at your new friend...
in this module...
we were taught to against our afraid by talk to one or our group member...
i choose Nadiah because she near with me... we talk about our family...
so, i'll tried to tell her about my family with happy smiley face...
but, she looked like that she want to cry... urm...
after that... we were asked to do impromptu speech to all my group member...
owh... i forgot to tell you all that in this module... we asked to formed new group...
our group's name... 'The Wonder'...
so, all of us make speech about a lot of things...
last activities is we must present some topic in front of class...
hahahaha... that really scare me...
we present about seven wonders in the world...
so, i bet that you all get why my group's name is 'The Wonder'...
my presentation quite bad actually...
my legs and my hand vibrate...
and i forgot name the person who named the old version of seven wonders...
his name is Antipoter of Sidon... huhu
anyway... we all feel happy...
learned and gained something new....
thanks to Che Lah and Mdm Rosilawati....
and my group members...
see you all later
my journey in BeST Program continue again...
in new week (week 3)... i gained a lot of things...
a lot of knowledge...
but, it seem my mind very full and i forgot some of my new knowledge...
not forgot it permanently but... brain and mind is very mysterious...
when we feel we forgot something...
actually that knowledge or information already stored in 'safety box' in our mind...
and it will come when we not realize it...
hahaha... that my introduction...
powerful presentation...
thats the module that i need and have to learn...
this two days module taught us how to make very memorable presentations...
firstly... you all must throw the afraid to your audiences...
how to do that...
before you all want to present something...
explore the place or venue that will use in the program...
make yourself comfortable at that place...
and... know all your audiences...
if it quite impossible...
meet one of the audience and friend with him...
when you give talk and feel scare or not comfortable...
look at your new friend...
in this module...
we were taught to against our afraid by talk to one or our group member...
i choose Nadiah because she near with me... we talk about our family...
so, i'll tried to tell her about my family with happy smiley face...
but, she looked like that she want to cry... urm...
after that... we were asked to do impromptu speech to all my group member...
owh... i forgot to tell you all that in this module... we asked to formed new group...
our group's name... 'The Wonder'...
so, all of us make speech about a lot of things...
last activities is we must present some topic in front of class...
hahahaha... that really scare me...
we present about seven wonders in the world...
so, i bet that you all get why my group's name is 'The Wonder'...
my presentation quite bad actually...
my legs and my hand vibrate...
and i forgot name the person who named the old version of seven wonders...
his name is Antipoter of Sidon... huhu
anyway... we all feel happy...
learned and gained something new....
thanks to Che Lah and Mdm Rosilawati....
and my group members...
see you all later
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